Christmas Gifts For Teenage Daughter
If your shopping list includes the note:
'Christmas gifts for my teenage daughter', you have an opportunity to make a
great difference in your child's life as well as give a gift to mark a festive
occasion.
Having a teenage daughter is a great gift in itself, as well as a great
responsibility, and you can give her a gift that is more than simply a present.
There are probably many needs that a gift can fill, for the teenage years are
both filled with possibility and filled with stress.
Especially from a father, a book on dating can be a great present. Many young
people, both boys and girls, do not know what is involved in dating. They may
not know the rules, they probably do not understand the signals that people send
(often unconsciously), and they may also be unprepared for the expectations of
the other person. Knowing what to expect is more than half of knowing how to
respond.
There are some great Christian books on this subject that help even those who
are not regular church goers. The books on boundaries are very helpful in
teaching a young girl how to handle herself, how not to be imposed upon, and
when to draw the line and even ask for help. Talking over the situation with a
parent (especially a father who knows how boys think from an inside perspective,
but also a sympathetic mother) can be very proactive and help control what
happens on a date.
It is easier to talk about 'signals being sent' to help a young girl dress
appropriately than to simply say 'You are not wearing that!' A girl can
understand that being with a boy she would like to talk to will be harder if she
is wearing very revealing clothing. However, she may need guidance to even think
about this aspect of interaction with the other sex.
Having a discussion about dating dos and don'ts - as many helpful hints as
prohibitions - will help your daughter be more comfortable on a date and have
the fun that she deserves. The confidence that comes with being prepared will
send its own signal to the young men she knows. She will also have the sure
knowledge of what you expect from her; many parents make the mistake of thinking
their children understand family values without making sure they have been
clearly set forth.
The need for 'Christmas gifts for teenage your daughter' does not have to mean
checking the latest teen fashion magazine. It can mean teaching her how to make
a week's worth of fabulous meals, of teaching her the basics of sound nutrition,
or getting her a personal formula of flower remedies. Use this time of year to
make a lasting contribution to her future health and happiness.
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